An advice-oriented blog for all things BDSM. Dominant and lover of two of the most intelligent, capable, and amazing women on the planet, @belovedsangi and @danipup. They are my partners, my best friends, and the most important people in my life. I am madly, utterly in love with them and I am beyond fortunate to have them. Most asks answered privately unless asked anon or if I think the answer will be useful to others. Please let me know if you definitely want your question answered privately and I'll respect your wishes. I'll also sometimes post other random crap that catches my eye- mostly nerdy or funny, with lots of video games, fandoms, and cute animals. I am 37, recently relocated back to sweet home Alabama and working in finance. Also one of the mods on Toodomforyou.